pay more attention

things changes
human changes
changes always happen for a reason.

people only realised something is different when abrupt changes is noticeable..
after realising that something is wrong or what had went wrong
& started questioning what gone wrong?
but actually

at the very initial.. we didn't take note of the meticulous detail of what is actually happening!

AND in addition..
similar circumstance/incident had happened quite a number of times
that lead one to magnify their attitude so as to reveal the changes more visibly to others.



we tend to miss out certain details happening beside us when other 'external' factors had attracted our attention.
only until when BIG changes occurred.. then we'll realised something is not right.
but actually many of times, there were signs appearing before that.
It's just that it might be too insignificant to be noticeable
or probably too insensitive to be taken into account?